Every Person Is a New Door to a Different World

People are so much more complex than we may perceive them to be. Have you ever thought about this?

For example:

How do they decorate?

Do they enjoy going to concerts?

What music genre and decade do they like best?

Do they sleep with a fan or music on at night or is total silence required for falling asleep?

Do they like to read or prefer to watch the movie version?

Do they buy organic foods?

Do they like to cook?

Do they like food from other cultures?

Do they drink a lot of water?

Do they like soda or candy?

Are they an organized person who cannot stand clutter or are they messy and fond of gathering a host of items?

What are their insecurities?

What are their fears?

What are their strengths?

Do they like to hike, exercise, and be out in nature?

Are they willing to be corrected and confronted or are they stubborn in regards to the honest opinions of others and refuse to admit fault?

Do they like animated films and cartoons?

What are their views on God, religion, and the church?

What is their stance on social issues?

Do they think pornography is harmful or harmless?

Have they ever lived in or visited another country?

What do they consider time wasted and time well spent?

What character qualities are they drawn to in others?

What do they consider a true friend?

Are they genuine or fake with others?

Are they trustworthy or would they be labeled a gossip who cannot keep the confidence of others?

Do they have a healthy self-image? If so, what is the source and cause? If not, what fuels this?

Are they afraid of bugs or heights?

Do they take vitamins?

Are they into natural remedies for ailments or do they prefer medicine?

Are they close with their family or are those relationships estranged?

Do they fall asleep quickly at night or lay in bed for an hour with a wandering mind?

Do they take their thoughts captive and dwell on what is positive and healthy or is their mind cluttered with negativity, complaining, comparing, fantasy and whatever else serves as a hindrance to a healthy mind-set?

What are their hobbies and interests?

Do they make choices on a whim or proceed cautiously?

Are they open to seeking counsel or pridefully assume they can handle issues that arise or personal demons on their own?

Are they a deep thinker or are they shallow in their conversations with others?

What is their favorite color, type of weather, and season of the year?

Are they frugal with money or spend carelessly?

Have they ever been abused sexually, emotionally, verbally, or physically?

Were they made fun of in school?

Are they a people-person or more of a loner?

Do they allow others to walk over them? Do they know how to set proper boundaries in relationships?

What deep pain and sorrow do they carry?

What has been the most joyful experience of their life?

What do they consider admirable qualities in others worth emulating?

Are they conceited or do they just act arrogant when inwardly they are insecure?

Do they easily trust others or are weary of trusting anyone?

"Every person is a new door to a different world." Unknown